The Bully: How to Deal with School Harrasment

Bully is a name used for abusive children and teenagers. The word comes from “bull” and it is used because it describes the common behavior of these children and teenagers to attack someone. Bullies are typically perceived as the physically large boy at school who beats all the other boys. But a new trend is beginning to appear at our schools. Bullies now come in all shapes and sizes. They can be girls or boys and their size it not an important factor. A bully’s conduct includes elements such as intimidation, humiliation, mocking, threats, and beatings. They tend to pester students who are quiet, introvert, have low self-esteem and few friends. Beware students! Bullying can be done either physically, verbally or using any electronic device such as computers (e-mail, messengers blogs, etc) or cell phones (text messages, pictures, and others.) It you are the victim of a bully don’t feel bad, you are not the first who has had to endure humiliation. The first thing to do is talk to an adult about the situation. Teachers and parents can help. It is never an option to attack the bully physically or verbally, but you should make it clear to him/her that you feel uncomfortable and that he/she should stop treating you in such manner. And last but not least, remember to love and believe in yourself. People will always comment about you, some positive, others negative, but if you are true to your beliefs and your character everything will turn around in your favor. Believe, trust and love yourself.